Tuesday, April 11, 2017

Being Healthy on Purpose...Positivity

It's been a little while since I posted last and part of that is due to the joys and crazy fullness of the days as I have jumped in to the blessing of many new endeavors. My counseling practice has filled any bits of spare time I might have had to do extra research, videos and calls. I came across this post that I wrote before I launched this version of Healthy on Purpose and wanted to share it again because it's such a great reminder to be thankful in all things and all times...despite the chaos I might feel because my house isn't clean enough, my to-do list that never seems to be finished and the  errands that are yet to be completed. I'm reflecting on the day I wrote this several months ago and thanking Jesus for all he has blessed me with. I hope it speaks to you as well. Thanks for reading:-)

September 2016
It's embarrassing to look back and see the date of my last post. This happens far too frequently! However, perhaps my delinquency in writing is due to more time spent in other endeavors such as spending 3 weeks in Africa soaking up family time and making memories of a lifetime, cooking meals full of health out of the beautiful bounties of summer, visiting with grandparents, cousins and friends, and beginning a delightful new year of homeschooling. So for that, I am thankful and do not regret less time spent sitting in front of my computer:-)

I have recently been listening to a training on the benefits of optimism and have been challenged in many areas. I consider myself to be a pretty positive person but I am learning about even more ways to work on the mental discipline of optimism and it's tremendous effects on health. A few months ago after reading a book in my devotional time, I chose a "life verse" - a verse that specifically speaks to my heart and challenges me in this season of my life. I chose Philippians 4:4-9 which states:

"Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable - if anything is excellent or praiseworthy - think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me or seen in me - put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you."

Though that verse is far deeper than just being positive, it ties directly into this concept of choosing optimism. When we set our eyes on things above and fix our attention on that which is good and pure and lovely; when we choose to rejoice in the Lord always; when we replace anxiety with prayer and petition...what peace we will experience and what a difference this will make on our outlook.

The concept of optimism isn't a flowery, unrealistic mental position - rather it is choosing a hopeful and positive outlook even when the odds seem to be against us or even when the reality of a positive outcome doesn't appear likely. The incredible part is that by choosing this mental lifestyle, we increase our overall health significantly. Those who look at life with optimism get sick less often, enjoy better health longterm, and certainly experience better mental health. Though this doesn't surprise me at all, it does remind me of the importance of being healthy on purpose in my mind. Looking back on my days in counseling practice, I can clearly see the clients who made the mental effort to remain positive in the face of adversity and how that mental outlook benefited their treatment versus the perpetually negative people who struggled to make any progress toward recovery. How profound yet how simple this concept is.

So...I'm being particularly intentional about choosing optimism these days and reminding myself of how impactful it is if I give it my all. It's a piece in my puzzle of being healthy on purpose and I want my life to sparkle with joy in all that I do. Over the past few weeks, I have been choosing oils to diffuse that are inspiring or mentally motivating...those oils that immediately encourage joyfulness in me. Though oils aren't the foundation for my optimism or joy, they certainly have a profound influence on my mental attitude and sometimes I forget to use them to their full potential.

This post was a novel...I don't know if its content is significant to anyone else but it's what was on my heart this morning and it is a big part of my being healthy on purpose so I wanted to share. Here are some of my recent favorites that have been filling my diffusers and being applied frequently...

Saturday, March 25, 2017

Mental Health and Essential Oils

Have you every wondered how Essential Oils can aid in keeping your mind healthy? This call presents the current mental health picture of the United States, lifestyle adjustments that can be made to change your individual health picture, and how Essential Oils can help keep your mind vibrant and optimally functioning.

Mental/Brain Health 

Call-in Format: 1-302-202-1115 15810392(access code) 

Download: http://rec001.freeconferencecalling.com/…/LA3977_0331201603…

Saturday, March 4, 2017

Healthy on Purpose Connect - Ear Infections in Children

Learn some information on the different types of ear infections typically suffered in kids, symptoms, complications, risks, and best treatment practices. 
Ear Infections in Children

Sunday, February 19, 2017

Healthy on Purpose Q&A

Another Healthy on Purpose Q&A is coming up soon! This is an opportunity to ask health-related questions (in regard to things such as mental health, essential oils, popular products/fads, diet and lifestyle etc.) and also learn from the questions of others. I don't claim to be an expert but I love to learn, read and research so if I don't know the answer from my own experience and training, I will dig deeper to find the information for you. Email your questions to kylearorabaugh@gmail.com no later than Wednesday, February 22nd. The recording of all the questions/answers will be available Monday, February 27th. Can't wait to learn with you!

Friday, February 17, 2017

Healthy on Purpose Connect: Overview of Mental Health Treatments

I am passionate about finding evidence-based alternatives to traditional healthcare options and mental health is near and dear to my heart. Join me for a brief explanation of the mental health world, treatment options, risks, benefits, and alternatives.

Tuesday, January 31, 2017

Natural...does that imply it's a better option?

Just because something is natural doesn't necessarily mean it's a good or safe option. Check out some easy tools to use when determining if the natural option is really the best option in this 

Sunday, January 22, 2017

The Science Behind Essential Oils

Research is of utmost importance to me as you probably have gathered thus far. Though this call was recorded some time ago, I thought it an appropriate post to make as a precursor to some upcoming information regarding essential oils.

I do want to be clear, however, that though essential oils are incredibly helpful and beneficial substances, they are not a substitute for healthy living. Instead, they can be a useful tool in maintaining a healthy lifestyle but by themselves, they are not the key to health.

For my research-loving friends and colleagues, I hope this provides some insight into the how and the why behind essential oils.

The Science Behind Essential Oils

Monday, January 9, 2017

Sunday, January 8, 2017

Harnessing the Power of Positivity...and a Look at Resolutions

This is a little long but bear with me for five minutes...maybe you can learn something from my struggles and mistakes:-)

Here we are, a week down the road of a new year. If you set New Year's Resolutions, are you staying consistent? If you answered yes, you are like 72% of the population who keeps their resolutions through the end of week one. Unfortunately, those numbers decrease with each passing week. So, how do we (yes, I am included in this!) maintain those new habits or resolutions when the excitement and motivation begin to die down? Most new and challenging endeavors can be carried out on the mental adrenaline that accompanies great accomplishment. When we are engaging in something hard and actually achieving a goal or seeing results, we are pumped up with the desire and excitement to continue. However, as the newness wears off, the initial drive that accompanied the challenge begins to fade, and life seems to settle into the same old routine, it is so easy to fall back into old patterns. I know I am guilty of this trend and oh how defeating that can feel.

So, what am I suggesting? Well, it's a lesson I have had to learn and experience on more than one occasion. I remember distinctly the last time it happened and it was so discouraging. Though I talk about exercise a lot, it is not a habit I love or enjoy most of the time. I am consistent and I do it because I know how important it is and I know I need to do it. However, if those are the only motivators, it's awfully hard to whole-heartedly engage and maintain the habit. Last year sometime in the spring, I was stuck in a rut of being grouchy every morning around 5:45 when I would drag myself from my coffee and quiet time to head down to the work out room to exercise. Day after day, it was the part of my morning that I hated. My husband frequently commented on my downcast looks and kind of laughed - "just don't do it if it makes you so mad". Yep. Bad attitude on my part. So, after a lengthy pattern of this, I made the decision that I simply wasn't going to allow this to be my reality anymore. I am a trained counselor, so why was I finding it so hard to change those cognitions and put different behaviors in place when that is exactly what I would counsel someone else to do? Hello Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Rarely is it that easy though. I had to push those negative "I hate exercise" thoughts out of my mind every single day. But, as I did so every day, I replaced those thougths with mental images of "I can do this and I will". As the pattern formed in my mind, it became easier and easier until it wasn't so much of a chore as it was a habit. Awesome, I've got this.

Then gradually, though my mental motivation remained intact, my physical body started complaining. Seriously? I had finally gotten over the fight in my head and now the fight of my body was screaming for me to slow down. Health issues that I struggled with became worse...my knees hurt constantly, my iron was so low that going up and down the stairs was exhausting, and I felt fatigued all the time. I backed away from any intense exercise and did a minimum. There were many days when I did no exercise. I came up with the excuse that my body needed a break and couldn't maintain the pattern of exercise I was trying to keep up with. When I didn't feel up to working out, I just didn't. And you know what? My mental motivation slowly disappeared until I no longer had any drive. I did the absolute minimum amount of exercise I could without totally abandoning it. I was back to square one. And that's how it goes so much of the time isn't it?

This continued for months. As the colder months arrived, I started to experience more discomfort, symptoms of health issues I have had for years. With my healthy diet and lifestyle, it's crazy that I have any health issues at all! But it could be worse. A lot worse. I claimed in my mind that a daily walk was all I could do, my joints were swollen and inflamed, push-ups and pull-ups and squats hurt, gripping weights exacerbated my pain, I was so tired, I didn't have enough extra time. So many excuses.

And then as the new year approached, I started working on that negative self-talk. What is wrong with me that I can't get over this mentality? I remembered how it felt to push through that mental jargon and arrive successfully on the other side. I can do this. If I can get past this mental block, I can force myself to achieve the physical side. In fact, I WILL do this. It's all about harnessing that power of positivity...thinking in terms of what I can do to make things different rather than focusing on all the negative reasons I can't. I love the Scripture in Philippians "Whatever I have, wherever I am, I can make it through anything in the One who makes me who I am" (Philippians 4:13 The Message) -   I don't think Paul was talking about exercise here but I think I can apply it to any aspect of my life! Christ is ultimately who provides me with what I need to thrive and he ultimately gives me the strength to carry out his plan for me. And quite honestly, I  don't think he intended for me to live my life grumbling or complaining about anything simply because it feels too hard.

So for me, this first week of January has been invigorating. I have pushed through every day with a new mindset. A pattern of saying "I WILL" instead of "I can't because xyz". My joints still hurt. There's still a lot of inflammation in my hands and feet. My knees still hate me. But the power of feeling positive about pushing past that feels amazing! Going for an ivigorating (ie. freezing!) couple mile walk followed by picking up those weights or pressing through those push-ups and squats...is not only giving me a physical workout. It's causing me to do a mental workout. This isn't about me doing a good job or being great at exercising though. Instead, this is all about choosing a mindset that allows me to do the things that are important to me and that push me to do more than what's easy. I am convinced that I am meant to thrive in this life. I am doing all I can with the strength God provides to move beyond what's comfortable and achieve wellness in every aspect of my life. I hope you will do the same!

If you read this whole missive, I hope you can be encouraged to learn from my struggles and harness that power of positivity - you won't regret it!

Friday, January 6, 2017

Healthy on Purpose Q&A

The first Healthy on Purpose Q&A is coming up soon! This is an opportunity to ask health-related questions (in regard to things such as mental health, essential oils, popular products/fads, diet and lifestyle etc.) and also learn from the questions of others. I don't claim to be an expert but I love to learn, read and research so if I don't know the answer from my own experience and training, I will dig deeper to find the information for you. Email your questions to kylearorabaugh@gmail.com no later than Wednesday, January 11th. The recording of all the questions/answers will be available Monday, January 16th. Can't wait to learn with you!

Healthy on Purpose Connect - Cinnamon Oil, Candida, and Bacterial Infections

Ever wondered about what benefits essential oils might afford you? Check out these amazing properties of Cinnamon Oil

Monday, January 2, 2017

New Year's Resolutions

The first Healthy on Purpose Connect of the year! Not your typical advice on setting New Year's Resolutions, this 10 minute call will give you some practical ways to start 2017 off right!

Sunday, January 1, 2017

Welcome to Healthy on Purpose!

I am so excited to introduce you to the newly launched Healthy on Purpose! As many of you know, this is not a new blog but it is totally revamped and will soon be filled with lots of new information and some information that will make its reappearance. 
This dream of combining all of my healthy obsessions has been on my mind for years and I am thrilled to take the first step toward introducing it to others.
My goal within the pages and posts of this group is to share what I have researched and learned and thus inspire others to adopt and maintain a healthy and vibrant lifestyle.
Thanks for joining me on this journey. I hope you will find lots of valuable and relevant information within this group. If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me at kylea.rorabaugh@gmail.com  Looking forward to sharing with you!